Do you have doubt on your boyfriend that he does not love you anymore? Or he does not care anymore? Well, we have got you covered in this article. It can be hard to decipher what men mean when they are in a relationship with you. While it probably isn’t the end of the world if he hasn’t texted you all day or forgot an important anniversary. However, there are some serious signs you should pay attention to in your relationship.
So here are the top ten signs that your man no longer loves you. If you see any of these, or worse multiple together, it may be time to look for a man who does care.
1. He cheats on you
This should be a fairly obvious one, but it is nonetheless a top sign that he no longer loves you. If he’s willing to risk everything he has built with you on a fling, it’s a clear sign he doesn’t care about the relationship. If your man has cheated on you in the past, or worse continue to cheat, it isn’t something to take lightly or brush off. What to do when your boyfriend doesn’t care anymore? Well, find someone else, and fast!
2. He picks fights for no reason
Arguments are part of any relationship but pay attention to what they are about. Arguments don’t always have to be over important things, but if he is arguing with you about everything from whether you should wear a coat to the restaurant to what you order when you get there, it’s time to let go. Picking fights is a classic sign that he is looking for reasons to distance himself from you. This sign giving you a signal that he no longer loves you and you need to be concerned.
3. He tries to change you to suit himself
If he’s constantly remarking about how you need to lose weight, stop messing around with paints or other hobbies, or even change your career, he isn’t the one for you. When your man loves you, he will love you for who you are. However, if you are trying to change yourself because you want to, he will be glad to support you and even give you the tough love you need to make that change—but only because you wanted it in the first place.
4. He doesn’t want his parents to know about you
This is a big red flag that he doesn’t care about the relationship; especially if you have been dating for a while. Your man should never hide you from your parents. If he’s constantly avoiding holidays with his side of the family and finds excuses to make sure you’re out of the way when they come to visit, it’s a clear sign he doesn’t think you’re going to be a long-term part of his life.
5. He belittles you in public
If he mocks every little thing you do when you are out together, it isn’t just friendly jesting. He’s comfortable enough with you to let his true feelings show which is also a sign he no longer loves you. If you can’t choose a meal you like or buy an outfit without his unwelcome opinion, it’s time to find someone new.
It might seem like a petty thing to leave someone over, but constant negative feedback can have deep scarring effects, and shouldn’t be something you have to deal with on a daily basis.
6. He belittles your family and friends
Even if he doesn’t pick on you all the time, making targets out of your loved ones can also be a classic warning sign that he is no longer interested in you. Even if he isn’t crazy about your best friend if he really loves you he won’t make fun of her behind her back because he knows you love her. If he is always dragging your favorite people through the mud, he doesn’t love you.
7. He always has time for his friends, but can’t take two seconds for you
Does he always seem to have time for a beer after work with the guys, but can’t seem to find an hour to help you with the things you find important? While it is understandable that your guy may be a little reluctant to go with you to a ballet or not want to go to the gym if he is a couch potato, he shouldn’t be reluctant to do anything with you at all.
What to do when your men don’t have time for you? If he can’t be bothered to be with you, find someone who can.
8. He plays down his own mistakes, but can’t forgive yours
The time he made the dog eating jokes at your favorite Korean restaurant? Funny. The time you forgot the name of his newly introduced friend? Unforgivable. We all mess up, but if he seems to think all of your mistakes are way bigger than his, he is once again trying to distance himself from the relationship.
A good partnership has room for forgiveness—on both sides. It is another warning sign that he doesn’t care about the relationship.
9. He treats you like a roommate, instead of a significant other
This red flag is more common in long-term relationships, but it is still one to pay attention to. Long lasting love may not have the same fresh sparks of passion a new romance has, but it also shouldn’t mean a complete lack of anything beyond being civil. If your partner has tuned you out, and won’t tune back in even when you are trying to get that attention back, its time to let go.
10. No matter how long you have been together, he won’t commit
While talking about marriage, children, or even going in on a mortgage together is certainly taboo in a young relationship, then is a sign he doesn’t love you enough. If the years have crawled by and your boyfriend doesn’t even want to move in with you–its time to look for someone else. A man that loves you will want to be close to you, not on the other side of town.
If you see any of these signs that he no longer loves you, it’s time to start paying attention and prepare yourself to take action. Sticking with a relationship because that has been the norm for months or years isn’t healthy for either of you. Instead, it is best to discuss the issue frankly with your men, and if you can see that things aren’t going to change, find someone else. Life is too short to stick with someone who doesn’t love you.